Tuesday, April 9, 2013

My Real Return

Okay, I'm back for real. I see that my April Fools post got removed, how I'm not sure, but I hope that at least some of you got a good laugh out of it.

Okay, some of you are wondering what happened to all my old posts. I've decided to be more selective with my posts and careful to chose their quality. So no more live photos and no screen caps unless I really think they are worthy to be on here but don't count on too many since most people tend to beat me to the punch on that category.  I'm gonna post anything and everything that I come across that I believe is true quality pictures for this blog.

In the meantime, I want to talk another scenario. Say you're in a fairly serious relationship, how do you break the news to your girl that you have a foot/tickle fetish? The pressure is on now.

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  1. Before you tell her that you have a foot fetish, you should make sure she is comfortable with her feet. If she loves going barefoot, wearing flipflops, etc then theres a good chance she is. What I did was off to, aswell as getting to, massage her feet whenever she was tired. I would also compliment her on how sexy her legs and feet are. Didn't take her long to figure it out I have a foot fetish and it turns out she enjoys having me practically worthship her feet.

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    1. Whoa dude, you probably have the best strategy here out of them all. You're probably the biggest expert here. Thanks for the input. I'll have to keep that one in mind.

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  2. Honestly just be blunt about it. that usually works with me.
    My girlfriend knew about my foot fetish long before we started dating. the way i see it, any girl who truly loves you wont have a problem with it -shrug-
    I would do what "Lovesfeet" said.

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    1. I'm glad to hear you got someone special in your life who is okay with that. What was her reaction when you just put it bluntly?

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  3. Welcome Back :) and $^*# the people that cant take a joke

    As for the question...thats a tricky one though i havent had any issues with women freaking out over it so it all comes down to if she loves you she wont mind...but yea thats not always the case

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    1. Hehe, thanks for the welcome dude.

      Yeah. Ya know, I really wish we could hear more female opinion about this fetish. I once dated a girl who not only accepted my fetish, she got into it herself and we'd take turns sucking each others toes. Let me tell you, it feels as good as you'd imagine it feels for your girl.

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  4. Welcome back. :) I thought the April Fool's Day post was funny enough. Some people just get butt-hurt over the smallest things.

    As for the topic, I found that being honest really worked amazingly well for me. But don't just be blunt about it out of nowhere. Wait for when you're talking about something you can use to subtly bring it up. I actually waited quite a while before getting up the nerve. I told my current love about my fetish before I even asked her out. We'd been close friends for years and we were talking about our respective stories and characters we draw and rp with. I made it kind of obvious since basically every single female character of mine is barefoot or wears open-toed shoes. I used this as a springboard to bring up my fetish and ask her opinion on it. And very surprisingly enough, she was absolutely fine with it. We're very open about our respective turn-ons and such, so this didn't surprise her too much, in hindsight. XD And now that we're going out and pouring on the mushy romance, I brought up the subject of giving her massages and even worshipping her feet, and she's perfectly okay with it!

    So don't give up, man! You can do it. :D

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  5. Backwalk here,
    Honesty is indeed the best policy. However, I also believe in setting up the situation fairly early in a relationship. An offer of a footrub is usually the best way to start. I've asked every girlfriend to stand and walk on my back for a massage (barefoot, no heels!). They're usually pretty cool with that. The occasional foot kiss for no apparent reason...and they pretty much figure it out for themselves!
    No girl I've dated has broken up with me because of my fetish. NONE! I take some pride in that. Even when we've broken up (the "let's be friends" phase), they don't rat me out to their friends or acquaintenances!
    All told, I think I've been very lucky!

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    1. Yet again, you are a lucky bastard! You got a lot of charisma to be able to do that dude.

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  6. I have my fiancee and she figured it out quite easily, but nonetheless, I was open to discussing it, and she was open-minded and didn't mind me sniffing her feet nor licking them.

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    1. Lucky bastard! You're already engaged!? Congrats!

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    1. Oh come on man! It was just a joke! No harm done!

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  8. Welcome back, I suggest you bring it up by asking her if she has any fetishes herself and what they are if you can do that, then after she is done, try to bring up your own fetish. Otherwise just pick bluntness.

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    1. That's probably the best way to go about it. But I wouldn't bring it up till about 6 months or so or whenever you get sexually involved in your relationship. I'd be really afraid of the bluntness though. I did it once and it worked but that's only because the girl was really open minded.

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    2. Well, it is a part of you that cannot be changed and almost inevitably she will figure it out at some point, so if you fail to bring it up with the slightly less direct method due to circumstances, that's practically the simplest and most honest way to get it done. Of course I may be wrong but that's what I would do.

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  9. Whoa damn! sorry I musta missed this post Heretichero666, first off Yo! lol great to be coming back to life on this blog, really missed it :P second, ummm geez hard to give you any helpful advice you ain't already been given now lol that's my bad though :P ummm yeah just make sure you're always being very polite about the subject, that's how I always approached my ex gf, other than that I did wait for moments she said her feet were tired from a long walk *note that down, if she's into going for long walks with you, it'll be worthwhile doing, she points out her feet are getting tired, you follow up with "if you're lucky you might get a nice massage when we get home ;) " lol* I even surprised my ex when she said she was going out shoe shopping *herself* and I offered to go out and help her with that :) hell even when she was shopping for socks lol. If you can help her build up confidence in herself that she has very beautiful feet *which am sure she does* and show her you're willing to appreciate their beauty she'll become more open and allowing you to appreciate them any manner you like. Tickling is something I'd leave up for when it comes to a tickle fight lol things always get crazy in a tickle fight anyway :P I was over the moon when I discovered my ex's feet were her weak-spot... JACKPOT!!! lol

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  10. Yeah...I was the one who removed the prank. I let it stay up a couple of days after April Fool's day but I couldn't leave it up indefinitely. It was a little too controversial and I wasn't in a position to moderate comments on a regular basis. I think you managed to get the shock and prank value you were hoping for though.

    As for the scenario. I think everyone is giving you good advice. I'm one of those really shy people so I probably wouldn't be quite as direct. Maybe I would ease her into the situation by offering her foot massages and maybe jokingly reveal my fetish to her during that time.

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